Friendship day just passed, and for me the day was not wishing friends "Happy whatever bla bla" but I introspected about what friendship is, and reached these conclusions-
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2. Nobody can be perfect, so expecting a perfect friend is unrealistic, stupid. A friend is not "achieved" or "gained" through steps. It is not a goal to be done by ticking a series of bullet points. You cannot conduct a class of "How to get a friend". And even if you conduct, it is a sheer waste of time. Because relationships are the only things, which are learnt without being taught.
3. There is no one who can be your "Best" friend, according to me. I never understood the notion of best friendship. Maybe because I have never seen a friendship which lasted for 20 years, and the friends talk to each other everyday for long hours till now. It is because the time does not mean anything, how long you had had a friend is of no significance. It is whether you still have the same spirit you had years ago that matters. I always feel labeling someone as "best" is hastening your conclusions about a person. After you label them, or if they label you, expectations rise, promises are more. And the bitter truth is- not each of them can be met.
6. Nobody can understand you better than you yourself. No one can lie more than anyone else to you but you to yourself. Nobody can make you regret things but only your own actions. So if you want to have a perfect companion, do not go searching. Because-